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Vanessa · Beginner Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 34

hi everyone i found this interesting article and i thought to share with all of you,specially for those who wanna trully know if the mother in law really loves you or just pretend to be...For myself i still need to wait for marriage to take place,but foe some must be useful.Here is it:

"Marrying someone who's mother does not like you to be her daughter-in law is complicated. For the guy he has to choose between his wife or his mother if he marry a girl whom his mother don't like. But as a daughter-in law ,how do you know that you are accepted in the family? As a son do not choose your girl over your mother. You need to find a way that both parties will agree to your decisions. It does not mean that after your mother sacrifice everything you will just ditch her out in your life. Respect her at anytime and listen to her side. Explained to your mother that you need peaceful marriage life with complete family members and that you are trying to get everybody get along in the situation. And when your mother-in law really likes you honestly, she will buy different stuff for you and she will give you the wedding ring and let you wear her own wedding dress when she got married. These are only few signs that your mother-in law really likes you. I am talking about a woman who married a man who's mother do not like his girl. Other things are letters and gifts and birthday cards or some money for your special holidays. Invites you to her house and do shopping together and have dinner and family gatherings. Mother-in law who will talk to you over the phone if you live far away from her and send you letters to say hello. Mother-in law who acts more than your biological mother is the real mother-in law you can find on earth. Who loved you truly and always appreciate whatever you do in life. Do go for one sided party if trouble in marriage come along. Always listen to your problems and give you a helpful views in life. That's a real mother-in law who really likes you as her daughter -in law.

Step1.Mother in law who let you explain your problems and listen to you.

Step2.Always have the time in your difficult times in marriage.

Step3.Mother-in law who will give stuff that means something for her and let you stay in her own house as you like.

Step4.Willing to help your kids as well and invite you to go shopping and give you free gifts and free dinner or lunch.

Step5.Won't practice favoritism between her own son or daughter when marriage becomes sour in the future. "